I've never used the Apera which sounds like it's a nice step up from the cheapo pH pens.There are a lot of cheap poor quality PH "pens" out there, but I'm a big fan of the Apera PH60 which would be at the high end of "pen" type meters.
I've used it and a Milwaukee MW102 "BNC" style meter for years for both home brewing and now the aquariums. The Milwaukee is more than $100 more than the Apera and yet, I use the Apera far more often. It's simpler, more convenient, and I actually find that it drifts less than the Milwaukee. In fact, I've replaced the probe on the Milwaukee but never the Apera, although I did have an Apera fail on me years ago due to my own screw up. Just make sure to take good care of them and keep the probes in storage solution when not in use.
And you bring up another good point. If a probe is not in use then it needs to be stored properly in a solution.
That's why IMO it's much better to have a unit that is always in the tank. Then it's always wet and you have far less issues. And you can look at a glance and see where the pH is at any time. Another advantage of BNC connected probes.
But as always there are loads of ways to manage ph/CO2, and everyone finds the method that works best for them. I will tell you knowing a great number of people in the hobby, in general those who use a controller would never be without them.
Then of course there are those who use a bubble counter and have great tanks too. I like controlling my variables so a controller appeals to me, others might not care at all and do just fine too. To each his own.