* I was sure I wanted an oscar, so I ordered a huge frameless 120G display tank
* I decided one fish would be too boring while I was cycling the tank
* I decided I would keep a group of 6x electric blue acaras and 6x bolivian rams, I went and got my fish!
* wife talked me into 3 pearl guorami as well
* rams practically DOA, the one who survived was an ass, so I rehomed, eventually 3 acaras were rehomed due to aggression
* added a severum who was quarter-size, and some juvenile koi angels
* added an eartheater cichlid (Jurupari)
* eventually added dwarf neon rainbows and removed 2 acara leaving only one
* around this time I added CO2 and got serious about growing plants
* removed the Jurupari because he found a much bigger home where he could dig and not disturb plants
* now the future looks like I'll keep adding dwarf rainbows here and there, keeping huge jungley plants, and doing whatever the gold severum asks because he is lord and I will do his bidding
What really gives me satisfaction on this journey is the ability to keep changing things and trying to find a balanced system that benefits both my enjoyment and the inhabitants.
As well, keeping the veggie-loving severum with plants is a hoot because I can now outgrow his appetite easily and it's fun to watch him occasionally sample the goods. They said it couldn't be done heh