Well, you have better skills than most people, and particularly for a recent aquatic gardener. Steep learning curves are typical for many. Collectoritis, you have that disease. Many do. If you cannot help yourself there, I suggest a terrarium as most plants grow GreAt that way, like Hygro Chai, both species of Cuphea, any Rotala, any Ammannia etc. A 90 cm x 45x45 tank with a glass lid and some plastic pots with some decent soil, maybe 2-4" cm of water, a shop light, wham. You can keep the plants easily for years. Put in the garage, basement etc, somewhere inside if possible if it's cooler than say 14C, outside in the full shade otherwise. This way you have plenty of species you can try, and you can focus on nice bunches in the garden. Arms in the tank, cleaning algae, wood, sides of the tank, filter intakes, the filter media, preventing intake clogs, BIG water changes(2-3x a week, after any big uprooting event or large trim job or filter cleaning). I often do 50-80%. The water goes to the landscaping outside and the automated version has a 700 liter cistern. Generally this frequency is done to whip the tank into good shape, then after everything is settled in nicely, you return to the once a week routine. Foreground plants love to uproot, so make sure to give them plenty of room and trim the plants closest to those farther back. The other taller plants grow back faster.....and will easily fill in, so do not be scared to hack things back. I think those few things I mentioned should help a lot. You will find many pesky plants, but later you will grow them nicely. Might take a few times. And if you have some growing emergent, you'll have plenty of chances haha. Some things to ponder. CO2 is an art and visual cues really help a lot. Eyeballs are what I use, slow step wise increases and focus on plant growth/health. Good O2 is also a big overlooked factor. You can use more CO2 if the O2 is also good. They are independent mostly.